front 1 The soulmate model | back 1 the idea that marriage is primarily about an intense emotional connection between two people that should last only so long as that connection remains happy, fulfilling, lifegiving to the self
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front 2 what is the soulmate model linked to? | back 2 more divorce |
front 3 is love a decision? | back 3 yes, it is not a feeling |
front 4 the marriage paradox | back 4 those who see their marriage as an opportunity to decide to serve others are happier than those who see marriage as a vehicle to feel happy |
front 5 how many young adults will never marry? | back 5 1 in 3 |
front 6 what was the total fertility rate in 2020? | back 6 it hit a records low at 1.64 babies per woman |
front 7 how many young adults will never have kids? | back 7 1 in 4 |
front 8 Asian Familism | back 8
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front 9 what are family first marriages built on? | back 9 economic foundations:
cultural foundations
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front 10 what is family first marriage about? | back 10
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front 11 when did marriage become less institutional and more soulmate orientated? | back 11 1960s/1970s |
front 12 couples who embrace the family-first model enjoy the greatest? | back 12 marriage quality and stability |
front 13 Marriage as an institution | back 13 marriage has classically aimed to fulfill a range of functions in US
common norms and practices -> roles of husband/wife |
front 14 what are marital norms? | back 14
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front 15 what is meant by the assumption that married people are different from unmarried people? | back 15
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front 16 How does time-perspective matter? | back 16 more commitment means:
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front 17 Marriage vs. Alternatives | back 17
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front 18 are his and her marriages different? | back 18 yes, very different |
front 19 physical healttth effects of marriage on men | back 19
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front 20 married women and men (blank) more likely to report very happy lives | back 20 60% |
front 21 What does DePaulo think about the selection effect and data on marriage? | back 21
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front 22 what is women wage penalty? | back 22 children |
front 23 what family income premium do women face? | back 23 $40,000 |
front 24 Wealth in marriage | back 24 married couples save at higher rates, get more wealth from families benefit from economics of scale |
front 25 for both women and men what is marriage associated with? | back 25 less autonomy and fewer choices |
front 26 for women marriage is associated with? | back 26 higher housework burden |
front 27 what dividends does marriage bear for men, women, and both? | back 27 men: health, income women: wealth both: sex, mental health |
front 28 what is at the top of the commitment ladder? | back 28 marriage
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front 29 what majority of people were "extremely" satisfied with emotional quality of sex? | back 29 married |
front 30 what are the outcomes of symmetrical commitment? | back 30 many good outcomes |
front 31 the truth about money and married women | back 31
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front 32 Marriage premium for men (income) | back 32
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front 33 Her marriage | back 33 marriage is most likely to benefit men and especially women when they enjoy moderate/hi-quality marriages |
front 34 The end of the gender revolution? | back 34
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front 35 Gender revolution in United States has left mothers with more opportunities and more choices... | back 35 no one strategy for juggling work and family stalled revolution since the 1990s |
front 36 Married mothers' work strategies (preferred and actual) | back 36
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front 37 why has the gender revolution has stalled, in part, because... | back 37 different women want different things when it comes to combining work and family |
front 38 what does jessie bernard argue? | back 38 gender specialization leads to stress, dissatisfaction, and inequality for women |
front 39 what do liberal feminist support in terms of home division? | back 39 formal equality, 50-50 division of work inside and outside home |
front 40 what do conservatives support in terms of home division? | back 40
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front 41 the progressive model | back 41 more egalitarian marriages should be happier the approach is consistent with a commitment to a formal 50-50 model of equality mechanisms:
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front 42 the conservative model | back 42
in marriage:
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front 43 Mos married mother DON'T wish to... | back 43 work full time |
front 44 strong family orientation | back 44 "both feminism and faith give family men a clear: they are supposed to play a big role in their kid's lives. Devoted dad are de rigueur in these two communities. And it shows: both culturally progressive and conservative fathers report high levels of parental engagement |
front 45 Family-first marriage | back 45 found upon 5 pilar:
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front 46 communion pilar of family first marriage | back 46 emotional dimension
financial dimension
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front 47 couples who reject what are happier? | back 47 the individualism of today |
front 48 how to engage the kids? | back 48
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front 49 commitment (family first marriage) | back 49
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front 50 cash (family first marriage) | back 50
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front 51 community (family first marriage) | back 51
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front 52 stat for husbands and wives who think marriage is for life being happier | back 52 73% of wives are very happy in marriage and 79% of husbands are very happy in marriage |
front 53 how much more likely are unemployed men to divorce? | back 53 men who are unemployed are 33% more likely to divorce and women's unemployment has no effect |
front 54 how does marriage play a transformative role in the lives of men? | back 54
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front 55 why does marriage exercise such a big role in men's lives? | back 55
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front 56 what is the growing class divide in marriage? | back 56
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front 57 what are the changes in marriage linked to? | back 57 1/3 of decline in male employment and play especially big role in less-educated men's detachment from work is linked to 11/3 growth in family income inequality and stagnating family income in the US |
front 58 how are the trends in work and marriage hitting boys especially hard? | back 58 boys "born into low-income, single parent headed households-which in the vast majority of cases are female-headed households- appear to fare particularly poorly on numerous social and educational outcomes. A vicious cycle may ensue |
front 59 what is one reason why the American dream is increasingly elusive to working class ad poor families and their children, especially their boys? | back 59 men's eroding connection to marriage and work |
front 60 A defining feature of our age is that fewer men are married which means.. | back 60
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front 61 how to reconnect men to marriage? | back 61
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front 62 what percent of first marriages end in divorce? | back 62 20% in 1960 and 39% now |
front 63 how is marriage a weaker institution? | back 63
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front 64 How women's economic status rising and men's falling effected on marriage | back 64
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front 65 Why did divorce rate more than double between 1960 and 1980? | back 65
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front 66 How secularization effect divorce revolution? | back 66
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front 67 How did feminism effect the divorce revolution? | back 67 the women's movement meant that:
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front 68 how did the psychological revolution effect the divorce revolution? | back 68
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front 69 when was the divorce contagion? | back 69 in the 1970s |
front 70 behavioral aspects of the divorce contagion? | back 70
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front 71 normative aspects of the divorce contagion? | back 71 as norms change in certain sectors of population, often influence society as a whole |
front 72 divorce rate in 1980 compared to now | back 72 1 in 2 in 1980 and 29% now |
front 73 Social structure of the divorce revolution | back 73
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front 74 cultural aspects of the divorce revolution | back 74
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front 75 What are the four horsemen of the marital apocalypse? | back 75
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front 76 Why do couples divorce now? | back 76
socioeconomic status
gender issues
sexual issues
other factors
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front 77 Working-class and poor couples are (blank) more likely to divorce than middle- and upper-class couples | back 77 three times |
front 78 coming from a divorced home increased your divorce risk by... | back 78 89% |
front 79 what is more stable the institutional model or soulmate model? | back 79 institutional model |
front 80 the class divide in divorce | back 80 structurally
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front 81 what are the consequences of the divorce revolution? | back 81
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front 82 How much does a good marriage boost your global happiness? | back 82 545% |
front 83 what share of divorces initiated by women? | back 83 66% |
front 84 Homeowners are (blank) less likely to divorce? | back 84 33% |
front 85 immigrants are (blank) less likely to divorce | back 85 50% |
front 86 good husbands do what? | back 86
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front 87 good wives do what? | back 87
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front 88 what are the consequences of family instability? | back 88
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front 89 The family diversity theory | back 89
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front 90 What were the prior theories to the family diversity theory? | back 90
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front 91 externalization in men and women | back 91 in response to family breakdown young men externalize while women internalize |
front 92 children from non-intact families (blank) more likely to be depressed | back 92 533% |
front 93 children from intact families (blank) more likely to rise | back 93 60% |
front 94 Andrew Cherlin argument on incompletely instutionalization | back 94
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front 95 the adoption paradox | back 95 adaptive parents have higher SES but kids more social and emotional difficulties |
front 96 most kids in non-intact families are | back 96 resilient and do just fine |
front 97 Why does marriage matter? children are more likely to get... | back 97 love
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front 98 contra family diversity theory | back 98 children raised in stable, married families are more likely to get the love and have the money they need to thrive in an increasingly competitive world |
front 99 cultural and economic reasons for choosing to not have children | back 99
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front 100 for who is childbearing the lowest? | back 100 secular progressives |
front 101 why is childbearing is the lowest for secular progressives? | back 101
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front 102 what is the economic pain caused by low fertility in asia? | back 102 Chinese workforce will decline by 21% |
front 103 what do bare branches in Asia cause? | back 103 social isolation |
front 104 what type of parents are the happiest? | back 104 married |
front 105 what sacrifice and suffering comes from parenthood? | back 105 expensive, conflict, and less "me" time |
front 106 what does love translate into? | back 106 meaning |
front 107 what does pleasure translate into? | back 107 oxycotin |
front 108 who is the fatherhood premium limited to? | back 108 married fathers |
front 109 what do fathers excel in? | back 109 pushing their children to embrace challenges, difficulties, outside world |
front 110 what is a father's distinctive type of discipline? | back 110 strength, size, voice telegraph toughness |
front 111 what are girl without (engaged) fathers more likely to do? | back 111 significantly more likely to be sexually active and become pregnant as teenagers |
front 112 cornerstone marriage | back 112 used to be that Americans got married in early 20s |
front 113 capstone marriage | back 113 most americans get married in late 20s early 30s |
front 114 parke 2013: 150 | back 114 "Evidence suggests that these differing styles of maternal and paternal interaction may provide unique opportunities to learn different kinds of skills that are important for children's intellectual and social competence." |
front 115 what are fathers' talents? | back 115 providing, play, challenging children, discipline |
front 116 Married fathers make about (blank) of the family income | back 116 69% |
front 117 the median family income for mothers with children under age 18 was (blank) in 2021 but only (blank) according to the census bureau | back 117 $80,000 and $67,000 |
front 118 are married mothers happier than childless women? | back 118 yes |
front 119 what are a mother's distinctive talents? | back 119
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front 120 what are moms' talents linked to? | back 120
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front 121 what does the American Academy of Pediatrics recommend about breastfeeding? | back 121 recommends infants be breastfeed exclusively until 6 months |
front 122 how do mothers have an advantage in communication? | back 122
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front 123 what is the biological basis of mother's nurturing? | back 123
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front 124 workist | back 124 work is primary source of meaning and key source of financial well-being |
front 125 statist | back 125 state playing a larger role in care of young children, rather than families |
front 126 what were the results of the free pre-k in quebec in 1997? | back 126
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front 127 attachment theory | back 127 a strong and secure attachment to mother gives child |
front 128 what were the results of the Quebec pre-K study in 2015? | back 128 "cohorts with increased child care access subsequently had worse health, lower life, satisfaction, and higher crime rates later in life. The impacts on criminal activity are concentrated in boys." |
front 129 How would you describe the growing racial inequality in American family life? | back 129 Black families disproportionately affected by retreat from marriage of last half century |
front 130 Why does the growing racial inequality matter? | back 130 poverty and wealth
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front 131 What does Bruce Western argue as an important factor for the growing racial inequality? | back 131 mass incarceration |
front 132 What does Orlando Patterson argue about the legacy of slavery? | back 132 there is a culture of gender distrust and trouble rooted in large part in slavery and jim crows |
front 133 in housing, education, employment, and law enforcement, African Americans (blank) to have experienced and report discriminations | back 133 more likely (redlining, hiring discrimination polciing) |
front 134 what is there a lack of in the black communtiy? | back 134 marriageable men |
front 135 today the majority of African Americans will: | back 135
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front 136 what ethnic/racial group in america attend religious services the most? | back 136 African American |
front 137 what is religious attendance among African Americans linked to? | back 137
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front 138 are religious traditions harmful when it come to the welfare of men, women, children, and families? | back 138 conservative religious traditions, such as evangelical Protestantism, that advance traditional ideas about sex and gender are particularly harmful |
front 139 religion and her marriage J-curve | back 139 highly religious and highly secular can the best marriage quality while mixed religious have lower |
front 140 who has more sex, religious or non-religious? | back 140 people who attend church weekly had more people report have sex weekly compared to people who never attend |
front 141 who is more sexually satisfied? | back 141 people who attend church weekly reported more often being happy with sex compared to people who never attend |
front 142 what does sam perry say about religious people enjoying sex? | back 142 those who sacralize sex tend to enjoy better sex |
front 143 does more faith correlate to less divorce? | back 143 yes |
front 144 generic effect of religion | back 144
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front 145 what does asceticism reduce? | back 145 reduces of too much physical or electronic pleasure |
front 146 which traditions overcome this female orientation? | back 146
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front 147 what are religious women less likely to do? | back 147 work outside of the home |
front 148 The positive effects of religion often do not... | back 148 extend to couples and families who do not share a common religious identity |
front 149 Americans without a college degree are, today, (blank) to be connected to a religious community | back 149 less likely |
front 150 The bottom lines of religion | back 150
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front 151 Why does family matter? | back 151 economic security
emotional solidarity
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front 152 Who are happiest americans? | back 152 married with children |